The Secret to Falling in Love All Over Again…
Whether you’ve been together 6 months or 60 years, there can come a time when you don’t feel like the love you used to have is there anymore. And you can feel pretty lonely and confused when this happens!
Part of this is a normal and natural evolution of relationships but that doesn’t mean that you can’t recapture the spark and learn how to keep it alive and well—You can!
Here’s what a woman told about her longing for her man to show her love the way he used to…
“He used to bring me flowers for no reason at all and he always told me I was beautiful. He used to compliment me, and look at me with desire in his eyes… he used to comment on my hair and the way I dressed, kiss me at any given opportunity. He never left the house without a hug and kiss and saying I love you. We used to talk a lot… but now, I don't know what went wrong. What happened and how can we get the spark back?”
Here’s the thing about getting the spark back…
You first have to really want to be with your partner and also, it may seem counter-intuitive—but you also have to look at how you’re treating him or her.
We know that looking at yourself when you don’t feel loved doesn’t come easy—but bear with us.
For instance, listen into your thoughts…
Are you thinking something like this…
"Why does he always...?" or "I hate it when she..."
If you are (and most of us do automatically find fault with our partner after the first blush of love wears off), then believe it or not, those negative thoughts are keeping alive what you don’t want instead of what you do want.
If you want your partner to start coming closer to you, do something as simple as making the switch to something like this when negative thoughts come up...
"I appreciate him for ________" or "I don't know why she's doing that and instead of guessing and judging, I'll be open to listening to find out."
Making this very simple shift can start the ball rolling to YOU feeling more loved than maybe you have for a very long time.
If you doubt us, try it for yourself and see what happens.
Next Tuesday, we're doing a teleseminar and web cast just for women called, "How To Hypnotize His Heart..." where we’ll give more great tips and ideas about how to get the spark back and keep it alive.
You can listen in and participate no matter where you live as long as you have a telephone OR access to the internet.
If you're a woman and want to feel totally loved and cherished by your man--then you need to sign up now...
----->>> "Hypnotize His Heart"
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